More on the Way It Is. Nerd men v. Hot women Anti-Charisma

More on the way it is

So women want commitment, men want many flavours, how then does the conflict of interests resolve? Does it resolve? We look to the stereotypes for guidance. Over the course of a woman's life she will find that at different stages her power and need situation is dynamic and will change as time passes bye. In the beginning she is at optimum youthful beauty and with much to offer. For that reason she can be picky at that young stage. In the late 30's she has hopefully got herself an Alpha male right? Maybe but what about the Alpha male himself? He is surely providing well as Alpha males do, but because he is power infused, he will usually seek and find a trade in. A younger wife mark two. This scene is played out and proved right time immemorial.

The young winner gets the prom queen, rises through the ranks grows wealthy and older, at middle age his prom queen has 2.4 kids a cute little range rover and a subscription to "O" Magazine. Thanks Oprah. She has it made, so so far so good, but now all her foundations turn to sand and dissolve in the rising tide of age lines and sun damage accumulated on her prom queen canvas. Now she's less desirable and that's a problem. The Alpha husband has the power to get what he wants so he trades her in for a 16 to 26 year old neu frau. The new house frau slots in and that is that. And the now derailed now ex-wife ex prom queen ex paramount object of passion is irrelevant. But you give it another 15 years and our now 45 to 55 year old frau has undergone menopause and with the exiting flow of estrogens leaving her wrinkled carcase, so too the bulk of nurturing family sacrifice goes. in its place now dwells a new attitude one of level headed self renewal. She wonders why and how she ever put others before herself for all her adult life. A new attitude of self discovery and rebirth takes hold and she activates her divorce lump sum to buy a beach side apartment and do yoga classes with the other sea-change gray nomads. So that is what happens to all the hot hot hot young ladies who never fail to reject young nerds like me and you. That's what the life cycle has in store for them. So take heart in that. They wont live happily ever after. And for you young nerds, what's in store for you? Well you will work very hard and earn very little, you will struggle to stay functional and to avoid the vices of gambling alcohol cigarettes and drugs etc. You will get to 45 55 and find that either you have been hijacked by a wife and kids who drain your funds in perpetuity or you are single spiritually unfulfilled because you have no life partner, but you will have some money to play with. What a lark!